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Brian “Clash” Griffin has been writing songs since the age of 15 and performing in the central Ohio area since 2000. As an activist, he has passionately performed at many rallies, demonstrations and protests over the years promoting the causes of human and animal rights. He has recorded 3 albums of original music (Late Bloomer (2003), HomeFront and LoveLoss (both 2005)). Recently, Brian formed a new group, Brian Clash and the Coffee House Rebels and has been working with Columbus Rock and Blues Legend Willie Phoenix on a new album (Morning Soldiers) to be released in spring 2014. More information and samples of his music can be found at Band Camp and on FaceBook
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I found out that a close (platonic) friend apparently has a foot fetish. Should I avoid being around him when I'm barefoot or wearing sandals or sexy high heels?
Dear Reader,
Thank you for writing in with your question.
Your friend shows that he trusts you, revealing his fetish towards feet. Your friend obviously trusts you enough to tell you about their fetishes and desires. He may not be coming on to you, just being forthright and honest.
I am curious to know why you would want to limit yourself regarding your footwear after hearing this confession. Why do you want to deny yourself the pleasure of being barefoot, wearing sandals or sexy high heels? Wear what pleases you, makes you feel good. Do you worry about what others will think, if you are turning them on? Do you feel shame or is it exciting?
I would like you to rephrase your question and ask me, “My friend loves boobs. Should I avoid being around him when I'm wearing a low-cut top with a push-up bra or a sexy dress?” Any part of the body can turn another person on – the back of the neck, lips, a haircut, hands, etc.